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How can your relationship be great? And if it is already great, how can it be better? Some people are so excited to have a girlfriend/boyfriend/ husband/wife that once they have the relationship they yearned for, routine sets in and one starts to notice pet peeves in the other person.
This Is when most people stop seeing the magic. The relationship changes because you have stopped putting greatness into the relationship. Your intention must be great so you can be great together.
1. ATTENTION
People want to be noticed. People have a hard time connecting anymore whether distractions around them, or worse constantly on their phone. Put the distractions away and narrow in on the person you really care about. Be in their presence and give them true attention. Do things together with no phones and no distractions. If they are the most important person to you, then you do not need to be paying attention to someone else on a digital screen when in their presence. Be connected; be there for each other.
Give extraordinary amounts of attention to those you love. You will see so much more about someone when you are attentive.
Look into each other’s eyes. People try to show love instead of being present. Put down everything and focus on them. They don’t need something, they just need you. David Chadwick once said, “They don’t want your presents, they want your presence.
2. APPRECIATION
Most people leave jobs because they don’t feel appreciated and a relationship is a job too. Make sure to appreciate the totality of a person Appreciate their challenges, their struggles, the stupid things they do, etc. You have to fully accept someone to fully love someone. You have to appreciate their soul; who they are as a human being.
What is important is not appreciating what someone does for you but for their reality. Acts of kindness are great but lots of people can buy something, how many people can accept every part of you and want to spend the rest of their life with you? Empathise and let them know you feel for them.
“I am here for you” is one of the best phrases to say to your partner.
Alot of people don’t need advice but they just need someone on their side. A lot of people in relationships when they are complaining they get upset with their partner because there is no back and forth with conversation. Appreciate someone by talking back and forth. Be there for them and let them know.
3. ADORATION
You have to adore the person you are with. Give them with more appreciation and attention and they will become more alive around you. When you adore them, you want to see them light up; you want to support their dreams more. Show them support that is bigger than you so they can live their own fully charged life. You should want to brag about them and make them blush; make them feel adored. Show them how much you adore them personally and publicly.
There will be a spark that will improve the way you live tenfold.
