Are you ghosting your man?
Let’s just say you couldn’t resist testing him; avoiding him on purpose to show him you’re upset because he forgot to pick up laundry detergent that you’ve asked him to get for the fourth time. The last thing you want to do is act cold toward him, expecting him to know why you’re upset.
He forgot laundry detergent so most likely he hasn’t somehow remembered it and is now preparing an apology. Just go get laundry detergent yourself and think of all the reasons why you do love him, rather than obsessing over something so insignificant.
Are you relying on home for all your plans?
When you have a significant other. It’s easy to expect him to be your go-to for the movies, a Friday night dinner, or an evening of snuggling at home. But your husband or boyfriend isn’t your on-call sidekick. They have friend and interests apart from you and that’s OK.
It actually great because it gives you time to be independent as well. Being happy on your own is crucial to a happy on your own is crucial to a successful relationship.
Are you expecting him to read your mind?
The is easiest way to get mad about nothing. We have this tendency to “test” our man. Whether it’s remembering an event or to pick up our shampoo on his way home from work, we want know he is thinking about us enough to do these tasks on his own.
Sorry, ladies, this is the worst way to gauge his love for you. Just remind him. It’ll save you a headache and unnecessary disappointment.